The Five Love Languages
1) Words of Affirmation
Some people feel most loved when they receive words of affirmation from their loved ones. It may be being told “I love you”, or being praised, complimented, appreciated, supported, or encouraged. Essentially, having affirming words will make you feel loved if this is your primary love language.
For some people, words of affirmation aren't it… they'll complain that “They say they love me, but they don't spend any quality time with me!” If this is your case, then quality time may be your love language. This can be someone listening to you, doing things with you, sharing experiences, looking into the other persons eyes, etc… It's important for this person to be fully present and with you when they're spending time with you, so watching TV while your partner is talking to you doesn't count and isn't giving them your full attention.
3) Receiving Gifts
Receiving gifts may be your primary love language if you feel most loved when someone buys you gifts, whether it be small or big. This may show you that this person really cares and you really appreciate anything that is given to you. It could be receiving flowers, chocolates, cards, notes, etc… any gesture that is a gift will make you feel loved.
4) Acts of Service
Some complain that they want you to SHOW THEM that you love them, not tell them. “Talk is cheap”, as the saying goes. These people need acts of service, which is when others do things for them. Someone with acts of service as their primary love language will feel most loved when someone cleans the house, does the dishes, laundry, cooks, helps them with projects or tasks, etc… When someone does something for them, they feel loved.
5) Physical Touch
Lastly, physical touch may be your primary love language if you require physical affection to be loved. It could be holding hands, being kissed, hugging, brief touches, or even sex.
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