Thursday 7 June 2018

Breaking the Yoke of Marital Delay - Dr. D.K. Olukoya




Excerpts (Paraphrased)

Causes of Marital Delay
[1.] Collective captivity

[2.] Spirit spouse

[3.] Travails of the first born


[4.] Parental curses- Statements such as ''You ..you think you will live in a husband's house, you will never marry.''

[5.] Evil marks - Satanic marks on a person in the spirit realm.

[6.] Spiritual blindness - Being so spiritually blind that you can't see God's choice for you. Who you should marry is right in front of you, but you cannot discern.

[7.] Familiar spirits - If you can remember a holy or satanic prophet telling you that you have a familiar spirit, then you need to pray hard.


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Prayers 
Confess 2 Timothy 4:18 out loud;
 "And the Lord shall deliver me from every evil work, and will preserve me unto his heavenly kingdom: to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen."

(i.) Every arrow of delay fired into my marital life die in the name of Jesus.

(ii.) Every chain of stagnation troubling my marital life, break in the name of Jesus!

(iii.) Every delay tactics organized against my marriage, scatter by fire in the name of Jesus.

(iv.) Arrows of disappointment , arrows of hard life, arrows of shame, die! in the name of Jesus.

(v.) Every power of my Father's house delaying my marriage.

(vi.) Strongholds of satanic delay I pull you down in the name of Jesus!

(vii.) Satanic agents wearing my wedding garments, die in the name of Jesus.

(viii.) Satanic parents collecting my dowry, die in the name of Jesus!

(ix.) Wind of the holy spirit, carry me to my marital destination in the name of Jesus!



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[8.] Occupation forces - The enemy will bring a man or woman to occupy you and prevent others from marrying you for many years.

[9.] Time Wasters - When you are hooked to these kind of people, they waste your time and days, and months, go by.

[10.] Late Conversion - Getting born again late. Meaning; you have to end the relationship with any unbeliever you are dating and look for someone else hence causing delay.

[11.] Divinely designed delay - Heaven does this one and it's okay and simply means the time is not right yet.

[12.] Detention by Sin - When you tarry in the arena of sin, you block Heaven from having mercy on you. 

[13.] Random Sampling - Multiple relationships circulating yourself from man to man or woman to woman until they begin to take note that you are not husband/wife material.

[14.] Fool's Paradise - Your thinking, about who to marry is so high and you are even attaching yourself to the ''un-attachables'' (E.g. Saying: I must marry a White man''.. but you have no passport or visa).

[15.] Destructive Ignorance - Reflects in the way you talk, dress and look. There is behavioural, spiritual and misconception ignorance which can all delay a person for a long time.

[16.] Anti-Marriage Names - Names are very powerful (E.g Monica = Uncertain, Belinda = Beautiful snake). some names if not changed, can detain a person.

[17.] Spirit of Rejection - Unexplainable hatred against your person.

[18.] Polygamic Spirit - The enemy detains you in order to make you become polygamous and brings assorted people your way (happens if you come from a polygamous background).

[19.] Homosexualism - Man sleeping with man If you do such, you detain yourself as; the spirit behind that act will not want you to marry heterosexually.

[20.] Lesbianism - Woman sleeping with woman causes same effect as point no. 19.

[21.] Broken Homes - When Daddy and Mummy are no longer together. There are spirits that follow people from broken homes. One of those spirits is ''marital distress.''

[22.] W****craft Spirit  - The Devil has repackaged W****craft now to suit modern tastes. If your idea of it is an old woman climbing a broom; you made a mistake. Present day w**ches wear 3-piece suits, carry brief cases, use the latest perfumes and are in the Judiciary, media, everywhere. ''I pray every w craft decision taken against anyone here will be scattered in the name of Jesus.

[23.] Blockers of the Right Partner - They block the right partner and bring the wrong people to you.

[24.] Evil Magnet - Wrong people are magnetized to you ..you know they're wrong , so they come, waste your time, you try to push them away.

''May that evil magnet power be destroyed in the name of Jesus.''

[25.] Strategic Displacement - The enemy puts you in an unprofitable location. He knows that your spouse is in Nigeria, but gives you an American visa to make you go away to where you won't find the person. The enemy detains the person in the waiting room of marital distress.

[26.] Jilting Syndrome - Person comes proposes, goes away, they keep jilting you.

[27.] Abortion Traps - Any form of abortion you do causes frustration unless atonement is made for the blood shed. The spirit of those children that you killed,  and their blood will be crying against the man and woman responsible and that may detain you in the valley of marital delay.

[28.] Bad Temper - If you're a man or woman who gets angry easily and you lose your temper; getting a  partner will prove very, very difficult.

[29.] Perfectionist Spirit - You want everything perfect; the person must walk straight, dress well (everything must color match), smile must be good, teeth must be white, hair must be black, neck must be straight etc. You cannot find a perfect man or woman. The only place to visit to find such is the cemetery because they are not alive.

[30.] Dictator/Goliath Parents - You bring different suitors/fiancees to them and they say ''NO''. Then you get delayed... 

[31.] Wrong Counsel - Any counsel given to you that is against the bible is wrong.

[32.] Bad Friends - Your best friends are those who add value to your life. Don't go to ''friends'' that will confuse you and make you do what you shouldn't.

[33.] Bad Health - A person who has medical problems will not even consider marriage. 

[34.] Virgin Bondage - There are some people that only the husband they marry, must disvirgin them. If somebody else did; the agreement they sign with their destiny will work against them. In fact, some ladies should have been happily married if that they had said no to sex.

''Let me tell you one secret.. you cannot tie down a man with sex. All you're telling the man is that you are not a wife-material. If you have broken your virginity before time, you have to cry to God for mercy because if God wanted to produce a prophet through you and you defaulted; then you need to break the virgin bondage.''

[35.] Imbalance in your life - You are just one-sided and until you grow many good areas of your life it can cause delay.

[36.] Bad hygiene - Your body is smelling, your mouth has a terrible odor, your clothes are not washed, your underwear is sticking out of your clothes, your hair is unkept, your nails are long like a vulture's, you don't clean your ears...It will detain you; you need to change. 

[37.] Marital Misconceptions - When somebody has programmed you to believe that marriage is bad. There are some women who have been programmed to believe such. Some call it death-sentence, others.. prison yard. Once you have that kind of misconception, it could delay your marital breakthrough.

[38.] Personal Embargo - You come to the Church and.. you hide. You don't participate in any activity in Church.  You're very unfriendly, unsociable, quarrelsome, bad mannered; the kind that says '' I don't mix with riff-raffs, if not for problems what will bring me here?''

There are some professions that give Pastors a headache, not that they are bad.. Banking and Nursing. The Bankers work from morning to night and sometimes all weekend. They don't have time to mix with people and they are always indoors in the Bank. As for Nurses...night duty today, night duty tomorrow. 
You should not put a personal embargo on your life.

[39.] Huge Family Responsibilities - Somebody wants to marry you then comes to your house and finds a battalion of children and all are on your neck. You are the one paying the school fees of most of them, sending others to learn a trade. The potential partner then reasons ''By the time this man finishes meeting all these people's needs, will he have time for me?''

Likewise ...some of the elderly people you are helping may be satanic and reason that when married; you won't have time to help them and they decide ''Let's put this person's marriage on hold.''

[40.] Evil Soul Tie - When you make covenants with people and promise to never leave them, you form soul ties. 

''We'll continue next time......''

Prayers
1. Powers speaking delay to my marital life, die in the name of Jesus.
2. Dark covenants of late marriage...Break! in the name of Jesus.
3. Powers behind marital delay, I am not your candidate die in the name of Jesus.



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